How You Ended Up Trapped

This fall, my friend Bridget Cooper invited me to write the forward for her book Feed The Need, which got me really excited. I mean, I love this saucy minx’s message. If you’re a people-pleaser, this book will have you at hello. Do you know how to get wild...

Oh The Shit Show We Create When We Settle

Walt and I spent this weekend mountain climbing in Lake Placid, New York. Winter climbing involves dressing in thousands of layers and tromping up and down a mountain on snow shoes for a good eight hours.  I realize that most folks don’t consider such an...

Cruel To Be Kind

This is a guest post from Walt Hampton.  I think it’s a pretty important message for us people-pleasers, especially during the holidays.  Even on a good day, we’re reluctant to cut ourselves a break, to take care of ourselves, because we’re way too...