The Ease In Which Your Ex can be Replaced by a Stray Cat

Rhoda Berman is 85 years old.  She’s a vibrant, active, no-nonsense sort of woman who isn’t afraid to express her opinion.  She knows her strengths and her weaknesses.  She knows how to represent herself. “In order to get the best of me, I have to tell (people) the...

Chicken Backs

When did we women decide that everyone else should come first? Who proclaimed it our job to guarantee the pleasure of others and settle for whatever crumbs fell off their plates? I like to call this the Chicken Back Syndrome. Preparing a chicken dinner, encouraging...

An Emancipation Proclamation

Some people are late bloomers. Take Flo Stahl, for instance.  She didn’t begin to value herself until the ripe old age of 65.  Now a vibrant, sexy 80-year-old, Flo is grateful for the opportunity to have evolved. Twice married, twice divorced, Flo gives herself a D+...

Six Qualities to Consider When Choosing a Mate

I used to think that women, like me, were guilty of being non-selective when it came to choosing a mate.  That any warm body that paid us a little attention could end up walking us down the aisle.  But lately I’ve been noticing that men–particularly young...