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The Daddy Hole

by AnnSheybani | Jun 2, 2013 | Cheryl Strayed, Codependency, Confidence, connection, Daddy Hole, extreem dependency, identity, marathon, Rescue, Self love, Wild

My friend, L, is the most “normal” woman I have ever met.  She doesn’t cart around emotional baggage. Not even a change purse-full. Her decisions have always seemed so… sensible. I’m pretty sure L’s superpowers—stability and confidence—are a gift from her father. He’s...

What You Might Find on the Other Side

by AnnSheybani | May 27, 2013 | adventure, County Cork, expectations, Ireland

I’m always reluctant to crow about my good fortune.  But, you know what?  Screw it. All those years ago when I was squatting in that closet with my unhappiness, I could never have imagined what I’d find on the other side.  I could never have envisioned...

The Girl in the Plastic B-Bubble

by AnnSheybani | May 27, 2013 | Boundaries, Bridget Cooper, Codependency, guest post, identity

This is a guest post by the world famous boundary expert, Bridget Cooper.  Well maybe not world famous. Yet.  But hold on. When you have boundary issues it’s a huge challenge to figure out what is your baggage and what belongs to someone else. You either blame others...

The Day of Reckoning

by AnnSheybani | May 20, 2013 | Brian Tracy, coaching, Courage, divorce, expectations, goals, Honesty, reinvention, route finding, Secrets, The Phoenix Seminar

Know that problem you just can’t seem to face? Mmmm-hmmm, that’s the one. That dead end job, or limping marriage, or troubled kid, or that fill in-the-blank. What do you think it’s costing you to keep it under wraps, to ignore it in the hopes that it will...

An Open Letter to J, Who Just Got Divorced

by AnnSheybani | May 13, 2013 | aging, Courage, dating, desire, divorce, expectations, goals, husband, life transitions, marriage, Match.com, parenting, purpose, recovery, reinvention

Dear J, Happy 50th Birthday!!! I must say, turning fifty is distressing enough without being divorced by your husband of 26 years a few days prior.  One could equate that sequence of events to being slammed by a speeding tractor-trailer. Nevertheless. Welcome to this,...
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