Do Nice Guys Finish Last?

by | Mar 23, 2015 | Life | 0 comments

So, I’m browsing around Youtube, as I’m prone to do when I’m putting together my weekly newsletter, and out pops Jeanna Maples, a young blogger with a major potty mouth who is getting a hell of a lot of play.

Her topic?  Nice guys, and their assertion that they always finish last.

As one of her commenters says:

YOU CAN’T FORCE ATTRACTION!  If someone is not attracted to your personality/looks/whatever, get the fuck over it!  Moping around and calling her a bitch is pathetic.  There is also a blatant difference between being nice and respectful versus being so passive you let people treat you like a doormat.  And to point out something that apparently isn’t obvious enough is that “douchebags” assert a certain level of confidence along with other things that give off the alpha male personality.  Whether a girl is an alpha or a beta, their genetics and subconscious say they want the leader of the pack.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on the topic.

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