Adult Pacifiers

I can’t tell you how proud I am of Alexandra Desbrow, the author of this piece.  This is a chapter from her book in progress.  It’s so terrific, I just have to share it with you, with her permission of course. This is how you stay in a very unpleasant...

What I’m Reading Now

OMG, OMG, OMG, I so love this book. I mean, I love it so much, I tried to make the image really, really big so you wouldn’t forget what it looks like. Listen.  Here’s the other reason we read.  We want to feel stuff.  We want to experience joy and sadness...

Why Vulnerability Is The Antidote To Shame

Sometime back, I listened to a Brene Brown interview in which she described herself as a child. An introverted 13-year-old, she saw Grease 25 times,  a movie I paid to see four weeks in a row at the very same age. See, like me, Brene wanted desperately to shed her...

Help Me, Rhonda

It’s helpful to know that obstacles are part of the writing process, but how are you supposed to deal with them when they raise their ugly heads? What can you do if you’re confused, say, about setting, or plot, or the relevance of that stuff for your chosen genre? And...

Run, Fat B!tch, Run

I’m going to break out my Book Yourself Solid coaching hat and introduce you to some associated philosophy: There are people we are meant to serve, and others not so much. And our job is to do everything in our power to reach those we are meant to serve. This...